How to Stop Worrying

Expectations. We go through this every single day ever since we come out of our mother's womb. 

Ever since then we grew up with what ifs and what woulds.

This fear will eventually manifest, because we are attracting them.

There is really no words, pictures, or speeches that can pull you out of anxiety if you choose to hear, see and talk about the negativity that surrounds you. How can a doctor cure you, if you are deaf to all treatment?

Things to start living by to kill worry:

1. Be really open minded, as I always like to say, a white piece of paper. You may know tonnes of stuff, because people around you have scarred, colored and painted your piece of paper, but TRY to keep i white when you learn. 
2. Be receptive. New ideas and solutions come from people who are thinking. If you're not being receptive about it, don't condemn the others to see things your way. 
3. Keep yourself occupied. Being busy keeps your mind away from worry. This little secret shouldn't be a secret at all.  Have a GOAL. A realistic one.
4. Don't have expectations. Especially with people; humans are born ungrateful, egoistic and selfish. We should never place these expectations on others that we ourselves are enslaved to. 
5. Keep praying. This is the only way, you are connected spiritually. Pray to whatever beings that you call Creator. 

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Time to learn or earn?

When is the best time to learn? Well I would say throughout your entire lifetime. But to be more SPECIFIC, the best age to gear up with knowledge would be during your teenage years.

A teenager would pick up thoughts and ideas relatively fast as compared to a young adult. These soon turn into principals which will guide his or her path throughout their lives. It is true that people change with time, but principals that reap an abundance would not easily be swayed with passing time. 

How can this be proven true? Why, don't we often hear the majority ranting about how they wish they could do it all over again? 

So this post would be specifically dedicated to all you teen readers out there.

1. 13-15 years old : You are beginning to undergo emotional changes that may bring about the rebel in you. This will be a good time to discover your true tendencies towards a field you will venture to in the future.
2. 16-21 years old. You have turned into an adult. Making decisions of your own, you should know that with each step there are consequences that hold you accountable. Fear not of failures but learn from them. Don't regret your circumstances but instead turn the tables around and make things work out for you.
3. 22-26 years old. You have achieved and lost your fair share. Do not sway from your original goals. Continue to learn and most importantly practice them as often as you can. Keep learning to earn. 
4. Now your an adult: SO TIME TO EARN back those 'learning investments' that you spent a quarter of your life at!

Desire harbor thoughts, thoughts manifest in actions ~ J.Hunstman   

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A Poet's Rant

picture credits to Andrea Andrade

My dear readers, I leave you with lines to ponder upon. 

May you find truth in what the poet seeks to tell, and ask of Life what you seek, 

for it is a faithful companion. 

I personally believe that if you're not happy with the story of your life, 

then you have not reached the end of it. ~J.Hunstman

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Conform to A Diet Plan

Obesity rates have doubled if not tripled the amount it was compared to a decade ago. Chances are the number will increase again by the end of this year. With the increasingly fast-food chains, young adults of as young as 18 years old will be hit with cardiovascular diseases and other cholesterol related disease. Why has this happened? 

Well, I'm not here as a dietician, to ask you to eat right, but rather a simple man with a vision to help you see right. Look deeper, and you will realize that you have not been giving your body: 

• the right nutrition
• the right stress
• the correct lifestyle

Apply this into your hopes and dreams and you will realize the significance of knowledge is food for the mind.

So what should we feed our brain with? When you eat "junk food', food' then your giving birth to an "obese brain." Try your best to identify these categories of "junk food" and it will change your life. 

My advise:

1. Don't stop by for PEANUTS. Avoid gossip. Do onto others what you want them to do onto you. Its good to know what is happening to the people around us but don't say things before you verify its authenticity. Creating false accusations can land you in hot soup. Instead feed your brain with knowledge and you will have something intellectual to think about. 
2. Grow your own GREENS. Many of us were not born farmers. We hop by the nearest supermarket and shop for our groceries because we're lazy it is convenient and saves us time. The greens for the brain don't come easy as well. They need reading, motivating and just the right amount of coaching. I strongly suggest reading motivational books, self-improvement  materials and even something related to your personal hobby.
3. DINE OUT once in a while. How many of us actually know that there is a new restaurant in town? We stay cooped up living in our own comfort zone. Getting all cosy with dining in while watching our 29-inch  plasma TV; we soon fall asleep. That is when you start to get obese! Get out of that couch and attend seminars, community activities, intellectual discussions, talk with young people, get yourself involved in organizations and keep yourself active!

Get over the idea that only children should spend their time in study. Be a student so long as you still have something to learn, and this will mean all your life. ~Henry L. Doherty

There is but one work in the world that is never finished for as long as you stay alive. What is it?

an autobiography.Make yours interesting, so that people would have more to write about. 

With that I conclude the session for today. To you my readers, I challenge you to a live of self improvement. Never stop building your autobiography for as long as you take breath. Make each breath a breathless experience for those who read about you. ~J.Hunstman

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The Path Undertaken

One of the most prominent choices men take in life is quitting. Defeat acceptance is a norm in any class of society. What comes out of a 'temporary defeat' is the most crucial point in this perpetual process. 

When you're in pain, you are never truly defeated. 

J.Hunstman

A person can either:

• Continue to linger and suffer the trauma of defeat.
• Track back on the mistakes committed and learn from them.

What are the possible tell tales that a person has accepted defeat?:

Often stay away from the first onset.

A man who encountered problems from his first business venture of selling digital devices will probably never take up the business again.

Often discourages the people around him to follow suit.

The man will give a whole list of problems he had to face while in the business to an acquaintance who wishes to venture into the same field. 

Ridicules his acquaintance's determination to prove him wrong.

Challenges may be thrown at each other to prove who is right. However, when you truly believe in your desires, it will manifest itself in the most unexpected ways. Opportunity is often disguised as temporary defeat awaiting the bold hearted to attain the abundance they hide. 

You may complain that it is impossible for you to "see yourself in the possession of money" before you actually have it. Here is where a burning desire will come to your aid. If you truly desire money so keenly that your desire is an obsession, you will have no difficulty in convincing yourself that you will acquire it. 

~ Napoleon Hill ~  

To conclude the session, ask yourself this:
Will you persevere in times of test, or will you wither with your dreams only to discourage others to follow suit?

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State them out. Shout them LOUD!

Take action today for it pays ~ J.Huntsman

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Be on top of The Pyramid!

Imhotep pioneered the construction of pyramids in the early days. Pyramids were fashioned to mimic the royal palace and served as a burial chamber for the Pharaoh. Such architecture demanded strong desires and while the construction of the pyramid went through ups and downs, The Great Pyramid was the legacy of the ancient Egyptians to the world.

The society literally lives in a system of pyramids. The rich and powerful are always on top of this self-manifesting system. Robert Kiyosaki once said, "I have a problem with too much money. I can't reinvest it fast enough, and because I reinvest it, more money comes in. Yes, the rich do get richer". The individuals of this class have set their goals right. Challenging themselves to push their extra mile. And No, if your thinking AGE is a factor your obviously lacking some qualities to be in this upper class, The Influential Zone.

Individuals grow accustomed to their own class in this pyramid. Eventually this gave birth to the whole idea of 'The Comfort Zone'. People of this zone have yet to challenge themselves and push their limits. As I've mentioned before the human thought is a powerful tool that man(woman) often overseas. Clouded by the comfortable environment and coy surroundings, one tends to fall astray.

When people are lame, they love to blame

~Robert T Kiyosaki~

Don't allow yourselves to fall deeper down the pyramid, The Olympics Zone. Here you find individuals running a race. A race that goes on and on, UNLESS they finally come to realize that they are capable of far more greater achievements than they already had.

When your at your lowest, find ways to motivate, challenge and also most importantly reward yourselves. I leave you readers with a simple choice to make,

Do you want to be in the [I], [C], or [D]?

*[I], [C], or [D] can stand for many things but in my dictionary it stands for Ignited, Clouded and Dead. Make up your own definition and stay [I] gnited.

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Desire; is it eagerness or an infatuation?

Desire. A simple word that could mean the world; a powerful thought that when it manifests physically could change the entire course of your life.

"An intangible impulse of thought can be transmuted into its physical counterpart by the application of known principles" ~ Napoleon Hill

Infatuations are often mixed up with genuine desires. During my course of life, I've met :

• realists who do everything they can to achieve greatness in life.
• the idle community who are trapped in the rat race.
• the enthusiasts but without opportunity.

Desire should be a genuine eagerness to achieve what we've hoped for. Be it for ourselves, the people around us, the community or the nation. As long as you start with these simple words:

I want to ...

Don't ever start of with I need to. When the mind sees a desire as a need, the enthusiasm to achieve it declines and most probably diminishes. A need enslaves your personality to get the best life has to offer. We have choices and are held responsible for our actions. If you are not working towards a better life, then you have yourselves to blame.

Lets start by asking yourself these simple questions:

1. What do I want to achieve in life? (name it and be precise; i.e be it a materialistic desire or character development)
2. Am I doing something to achieve your dream with each passing day? If your answer is NO, then your desires are just infatuations. Don't bother having those dreams, as you are not really enthusiastic about them.
3. If your answer is YES, you are one step closer to achieving them. Never back down on your desires.
4. How can I do better on a daily basis into achieving these dreams? Draw up an action plan with the title: MY STATEMENT OF DESIRE
5. Am I ready to take the next bold move in life to honour my statement, live by it and never thrown in the towel?

I leave you to ponder on these questions and decide are your desires created from pure eagerness or was it all just an infatuation soon to be forgotten and fretted upon?

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